June 29th
It’s our last night in our Latvian
apartment that we have called home since June 11th. We are
all sitting doing various "techy" things. Phil is playing Stickman
soccer, Eileen is writing and Kris is playing tanki - an online blow em up game
with tanks. After an amazing day at a ropes and climbing course we
are all pooped. Kris climbed like a monkey on the most challenging
courses. Phil did great (provided he didn't look down) and Eileen almost puked at the end. Kris was completely in his element!
We have had two
visits from the social workers to see how the bonding process is
progressing . How do you explain this child fits in our family like
he was born into it. Often Eileen thinks about how we love our babies
before they are born. For nine months in the womb we love and dream
about meeting them. Even before conception how many conversations
about are children yet to be born were had? Our friend Dorah calls
them “heart children”. This is the best way we can think of to
describe the relationship that is happening with this kiddo. Our
hearts are bonding with ease. K is a chatterbox and he often wears his heart
on his sleeve.
We watched as
he Skyped with his sister, from whom he was separated two years ago.
The look on both their faces as she struggled speaking her native
language and he chattered away was priceless. She couldn’t stop
smiling and he was thrilled. The love was palpable even across an ocean and through a computer screen. They were both a little choked up at the end.
This story of our family has so many
angels. People who began to pray for K years ago as he was taken from
the one sibling he had. People mentored him here in Latvia, teaching
him about Jesus and loving him as only fellow humans can do. That
whole Jesus with skin on thing. Showing him that love is real, that
he is special, that he matters . His change has been noted by the
Orphan Court, by the Director of his Orphanage. They all said “he
went to that camp and something happened.” He came back from that camp a changed person. They noticed God working
in his life. Powerful stuff.
K gets it. He exhibits a level of love
that can only be explained by the hand of God working through people. We are amazed at the rawness
and honesty of his communication with his friends and mentors.We stand in awe and humility of a God who has allowed
us to raise this child and bring him into our family as our own.
This last week in Latvia we get to do
something we are not sure has been done by an adopting family. We have
been given permission by the court to continue the bonding process at
the camp. Jaycee has graciously invited us to stay there. In addition
we get to meet 52 new orphans, some we know but most we will meet for
the first time.
Is it coincidence that this year they
have some special needs campers? We think not, as it happens to be Eileen's
profession. Is it coincidence that we get to be blessed by these
children? We know without a doubt that this is the
beginning of something very special with our new family and Latvian
orphans. God allows us to experience miracles. We don’t even have
to believe that they are miracles but after a while it is impossible
to deny. Our God is a God of the impossible.
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